Wednesday, July 22, 2009

What makes a man happy...

What makes me happy is being contented with all the things and values that I have right now. Of course everyone of us is searching for happiness but what we do not really know is, happiness is just in front of us.

Nowadays, we cannot deny the fact that we rely our happiness to materials things. Some people in their pursuit to find happiness are spending themselves into financial ruin in an attempt to capture it. But the harder they try, the more it gets away.

Do you really know what makes you happy? Think about it for a moment. Is it your possessions? Is it money? Friends? Love ones? Being successful? Many of us are thinking that we will be happy with all these things. That is the biggest mistake that men ever believed in and failed to realize. Yes, it's true that it is very difficult to explain why we are happy or what makes us happy. But in a long run we will still find it.

Our happiness doesn't rely on the things we have right now, the people surrounding us or even the most expensive thing we have in hand but its something that you cannot count and that is being contented. Being in a state of contentment referred also as peace of mind, regardless the hardships that are going on with our life. The root is contentment.

If you wish to be contented in life and reach the state of happiness then stop comparing your life to anyone or to the possessions that others have. That there are certain happenings in life that you can never change no matter how hard you try so we should quit worrying about it. That is what we called acceptance. It isn't your position that makes us happy it is our disposition.

Ay tenk u baw!. hahaha

17 comments:

  1. what makes a man happy? hmmm....

    kuan man guro. kanang kuan bah.. u know nah.. lol

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  2. waaaaaaa.. spill it out dear sai. hahaha.. ataka pod anang u know na oi..

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  3. "If you compare your self to others,, you may become vain or bitter. For always, there will be greater and lesser person than your self"

    -ganahan ko ana na lines.. bwahaha..
    kuan kanang, mura ka ug ga write ug essay.. hehe.. i mean kanang essay writing contest.. hehe

    paytir!! you got some points.. :D

    happiness is a warm gun-the beatles

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  4. hahah.. kaw jud parts.. idol au ka mo comment dah.. critic jud. hahah..:).. tenx nweiz..

    kana na line na imong giingon sakto kaayo.. don't compare yourself to anyone.. we are unique so lahi2x gyud ta.. :)

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  5. "Our happiness doesn't rely on the things we have right now, the people surrounding us or even the most expensive thing we have in hand but its something that you cannot count and that is being contented"

    those humble people will even now if they have a happy and complete family.. they do not after on the things that it can only be benefited by themselves.

    if you wish to compare yourself, face the mirror. Ask yourself if who you really are..

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  6. @sawbones

    comparing oneself to anyone will not do something good in your life. the harder you try to compare yourself to any individual will just make things futile. much better if you live your own life and enjoy it to the fullest.

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  7. bwahaha.. xempre..nka relate rapud ko sa emu post mao nka comment pd ko .. haha..

    nindot na partz!

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  8. ^^.. more post to go parts..:).. thanks for the comments.. kng nana pod mosulod sa akong utok ako e.post dri. hahahah

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  9. ahaha..wai blema partz.. malingaw pd ko sa emung posts.. ehems.. haha

    kanang wa pa jd ko gana mo blog run ai.. d ko inspired.. bwahaha

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  10. haha.. at least nalingaw ka. hihi..

    ana diay na ky dli inspired dli ka post? nah.. ako rman pod e.post kng unsa ako masulod sa utok. hihi

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  11. wakikikiwakokoko . . . murag ana jud na.. I can easily come up with thoughts and put them in words when I’m in love or broken... bwahahaha

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  12. :).. i'm not inlove nor broken parts.. i just like to post whatever idea i have in mind.. :)

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  13. "comparing oneself to anyone will not do something good in your life. the harder you try to compare yourself to any individual will just make things futile. much better if you live your own life and enjoy it to the fullest "


    tumpak :)samot rakag ka down jud


    kaw najud mae hehehehe pwd na ^_^



    -bhadzkii

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  14. :).. mao gyud bhadz.. enjoy lng.. you'll miss half of your life if you'll not enjoy every moment of it... pwede pod imoha natong whole..:)

    thanks for the comment..

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  15. hahaha.. mao ka dha..pero okay ra na oi.. hahaha..

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  16. bleh. hahaha.. kaw gyud parts.. ayaw palag dha. hihi

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